Saleh Finds
Avila
By: Lexi Clary
On Wednesday January, 20th,
I had the pleasure of interviewing Saleh Altaibi. Saleh is from a small village called Dwodmy near
the capital of Saudi Arabia. He came to the United States to further his
education. In California he attended a small community college where he was planning to major in
criminal justice to become a detective. Saleh had a cousin who attended Avila University
and graduated last fall. His cousin told him what a great school Avila is. After
listening to his cousin say such great things about the University, he decided
to move to Missouri where he is now attending Avila. Soon after arriving he learned
his country, Saudi Arabia, would not except a degree in criminal justice from Avila,
and decided to change his major to Communications with a concentration in
Public Relations and Advertising. Saleh says he is “very happy with the change
and is excited to see where this degree will lead him.” I asked Saleh if he was
planning to stay in the U.S. after he graduates or if he would return back home;
Saleh said “it would depend on where the better job offer is”. Saleh’s favorite
thing to do in Missouri is study, which I found crazy, but he thoroughly
enjoys. When he is not studying, he can usually be found relaxing at his house
or hanging out with his friends or playing cards. The thing thing Saleh misses
most about Saudi Arabia is his family. His greatest achievement is graduating
from high school, with a 92% GPA, he says his parents were very proud of him and
he was also proud of himself for making it in the top 10% of the class. Dogs
are his biggest fear in life. He has no particular reason why, but they literally
scare him so much, if he is walking on the same side of the street as one he
will walk across the street to the other side. One of the qualities Saleh finds
important in his friends is the ability for them to hold him accountable, as
well as having his best interest at heart. Whenever he might do something that
isn’t good for him, he wants them to be able to call him out on it. He also wants them to have his back through
the good and bad times in life. Saleh also values friends who are supportive of
him; he wants them to be there for him because they want to be, not because he
has to ask them. Saleh says “if we don’t have friends to support us, then we
would have a hard time accomplishing anything. Having support in life will help
guide you to make the right decision”. Saleh doesn’t like to stay in one place too
long; he enjoys seeing new things and meet new people. He has traveled to
numerous states and has gotten to experience many different cultures in the
U.S.
(Saleh waits patiently for night class to start)
When Saleh graduates he wants to
move to the city where everything is closer together. He wants to be able to go
to the grocery store or hospital (if need be) without driving 45 minutes to get
there. I asked Saleh if he could choose his death, what it would look like for
him. He said he wants to die fast, preferably in his sleep. Saleh wants to die
before he gets too old and his children have to take care of him. He says if it
ever gets to that point he couldn’t live with himself because he doesn’t want
his children to see him struggling.
(Saleh posing by some pictures taken by students in the Viscom department)
Since Valentine’s Day is approaching I decided
to ask Saleh some things pertaining to love.
One of the things Saleh loves
about himself is he is a very friendly and approachable guy. The thing Saleh
loves the most in life is heart. The person he loves the most is himself; he
says “I The second person he loves the most is his mom;
“mothers are always there for you.” Saleh told me one time, when he was very
upset about something going on in his personal life, his mother called him. She
asked him if he was okay and of course he said yes to try and not worry her. He
says his mother knew just by talking to him he was not okay. Saleh finally told
her what was going on and his mother helped him fix it immediately. A quality Saleh
likes in a woman is the same thing he loves most in life, which is himself. He
wants whoever he is with to value herself above anything else and to take pride
in who she is. If you love yourself first then you have the ability to love others; you can’t love someone until you can love yourself.”
(Saleh waiting outside of Convergence Journalism)
Saleh's Live Interview:
https://youtu.be/MJc8tsTjVAA